

"Closeout Sale on 'The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself' First Edition"
SPECIAL CLOSEOUT SALE ON "THE MISSING COMMANDMENT: LOVE YOURSELF" - 2013 EDITION! We have just completed the New Expanded Edition of The...


"God Met Me in My Pain…with His Unconditional Love"
We invite you to take five minutes and view these two new video clips. In the first one, Jerry shares about his own need for healing and...


"Surviving Is Not Living"
In normal development, children are much more “feelers” than “thinkers.” We often say, “Children are just bags of feelings.” However,...


"True Self Versus False Self…Which Is It?
Many years ago, I (Jerry) operated significantly out of my false self. I didn’t realize it at the time but there were indicators that...


"Hiding from Love"
We remember asking a client to tell us which defense mechanisms he used in his life. All of a sudden, he started singing the lyrics to...


"Why Do I Try to Make Everyone Happy?"
In dysfunctional homes, children develop certain “roles.” The five classic roles that are most commonly referenced are the enabler, the...


"Storms"
We all experience storms in our lives—storms that are unexpected, damaging, out of our control, costly. As we recently watched the fury...


"What in the World Drives My Actions?"
Whenever we counsel, we are always looking for the “drivers” that are causing problems in our behavior and in our relationships. As we...


"I Don't Think I Have Toxic Shame... or Do I?"
When we counsel individuals and couples, we look for the "drivers"--those things that are underneath the behaviors that cause the...