"True Self Versus False Self…Which Is It?
Many years ago, I (Jerry) operated significantly out of my false self. I didn’t realize it at the time but there were indicators that...
"Why Do I Try to Make Everyone Happy?"
In dysfunctional homes, children develop certain “roles.” The five classic roles that are most commonly referenced are the enabler, the...
"I Don't Think I Have Toxic Shame... or Do I?"
When we counsel individuals and couples, we look for the "drivers"--those things that are underneath the behaviors that cause the...
"Loving Me Just for Me"
When we “love God because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19), it enables us to fulfill the greatest commandment—to “love the Lord with all...
