

"Do You Do This?"
Our walls of protection that we learned growing up place our trust in our own power rather than in God to be our defense, our protection,...


"More Power to the Shields!"
When we put up our guard, our shields, our fortified walls, then the energy to keep them in place has to come from somewhere. It takes...


"Did It Matter to God?"
When we work with counselees, we ask them to reflect on different needs that we believe God says are important to our childhood...


The Story Behind "The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself"
Our book, The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself, is about the heart—your heart and ours. From the very beginning of our counseling...


How Nice is Your Self-Talk?
We never like it when we are criticized, ignored, diss-ed, or rejected by others. We think it's wrong, offensive, unfair, or just plain...


"Surviving Is Not Living"
In normal development, children are much more “feelers” than “thinkers.” We often say, “Children are just bags of feelings.” However,...